Monday, March 10, 2014

If you could put a price tag on your forehead, what would it be? What's your worth? 
Are you a dime?
A nickle?
A million dollars?
Are you priceless?

It seems that some women have no clue what they are worth. Their value is poorly displayed by exterior facades. They misplace their worth in things that mean nothing...in relationships that are stagnant...in just existing at times without purpose. 
You deserve the best! Don't we all?! That's what we tell our children, why don't we always accept this for ourselves? Not some of the time...not just in the beginning of a relationship...the entire relationship. Why? Because you are worthy? Sounds like a shampoo commercial, but it's true. So much effort goes into the chase and getting to know each other phase of a relationship, so it seems fun. The work in the beginning is fun, so the work throughout the relationship should be fun...it won't necessarily be easy, but it shouldn't be horrible. He should also be giving you his best...that way, you can give your best.
You are worthy of standards...and never lower your standards for anyone! Know your worth! If you are a nickle, maybe you will lower your standards, but you need to up your worth to the level of priceless. 
Remember, you will be viewed how you display yourself. Stop doing any and everything for nothing. Adult women are on the internet, basically naked for "likes" and "comments" or "follows." Guess who is watching? Your daughters. Guess who will follow? Yep. If you show your daughter that everything doesn't have a price tag, they will understand they can also be priceless and know their worth. 
You are worth being called the name you were given, the title you earned by education or employment...not a derogatory name ignorantly used as a term of endearment. We should never allow ourselves to be called "Bitch" or "Nigga" ever! There are other offenses, but these two seem to be the most common. These are not terms of endearment, these are not cool nicknames....they are flat out horrible. Guess who is watching? Guess who is copying? Exactly. Little kids are copying, being recorded on World Star and getting thousands of views and likes. WE are worth more. 
I'd like to think that I'm priceless because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, thank you God! I am no where near perfect. We need to remind ourselves to be better and do better. If we think better by knowing we ARE better, we would go much further. 

Know your worth!
#I'mpriceless
Peace